How to create a good relationship with yourself and perform better!
- Daniel Garcia
- Apr 8, 2021
- 3 min read
Having a good relationship with yourself is a good indicator that your paths and performance are being better accepted, but to have a good performance it is necessary to create good practices.
Daniel Guimarães & Daniel Garcia
We all want to have a life of excellence, we plan for our first years after school, college, first job, that first discovery of a new culture, an exchange. We tell ourselves, daily, what the story of our lives will be like, don't we? As we will react to different situations in our lives, we create patterns in our lives and use these patterns as safety guides for when we deal with wrong situations or our planning suffering with the biggest word that everyone is afraid to hear, failure.
Thus it is always to be in constant growth and for that it is always important to be prepared for a strategy of plans for our lives, whether to get a job, develop our careers, when we are in doubt of something like that good coaches and mentors have a great importance for our planning.
The reason I feel good about you
When it comes to being well with ourselves, we often believe that we are doing well and being honest with ourselves, even when we are not, because it is very easy to be deceived by small thoughts that give us a feeling of comfort.
When we are not feeling well, it is often because we are disconnected from our emotions, values and even our “Why”. Therefore, the important thing is to know how to deal with your emotions, to know how to carry out your plans and your dreams with a view of the potential.
Signs of demotivation
When we are unmotivated, we feel that our lives are “off”, that is, we know that there is something missing there, but we do not have the motivation to go after those changes, often this is due to the lack of a vision for your enterprise, as well as it lacks the vision to reconcile your why with your business planning.
1. Self-sabotage
Often we sabotage, whether in terms of business or issues in our personal lives due to lack of vision or better said, the lack of alignment with our planning in our projects.
2. Avoid risks
We constantly find ourselves in positions where we want greater growth for our ventures, to be able to make decisions in our companies, because we often avoid taking risks that we often have insecurity about where they can take us.
3. Project Development Failure
As previously said, self-sabotage and fear of risk is one of the biggest limitations to our lives, it prevents us from making clear and accurate decisions for our business and in this way makes us have a lack of planning in projects or our personal issues, whether for build a career, manage a project, plan a business.
How to be well with yourself
Once we have defined exactly what we need, be it to improve our ideas, to improve our business, to motivate ourselves; this is the moment when we must make decisions and start acting - often this decision is not easy, or often pleasant, because we are leaving our comfort zone, but these decisions are necessary for actions.
Here are our tips:
1. Be Vulnerable
The act of allowing yourself to be vulnerable gives you a complete view of where you should act in your life to improve it, so that decision making can be much easier and clearer in the face of your need.
2. Reflect on decisions
Take time for yourself, put your thoughts on paper, as if they were projects and reflect on the decisions you want to make, the act of reflecting on what you need is a great denominator to move outside your comfort zone.
3. Know your Why
When we have a clear vision of our “Why”, we have a clear vision of our lives, our plans, goals and objectives, so it is very important to have knowledge of your skills in order to achieve your ideals and that is why it is always good to have external help be it in mentoring or consulting, so that we can draw up plans in a more concise and realistic way.
Be prepared for your move and come and act for your business or your personal development with our services offered.
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